Habits are repeated behaviors. Some habits are benign. For example, a baseball player has the habit of touching their foot with their bat every time they step into the batter’s box, or a teenager has a habit of checking their phone every time it makes a new message sound. Some habits can be harmful. Addictions and compulsions can keep people from accomplishing their goals.

Examples of Habits

  • Checks phone constantly
  • Morning coffee ritual
  • Exercises daily
  • Procrastinates

Researching Habits

Learning people’s habits reveals behaviors that take up time in their day—things they can and sometimes can not control.

Questions to Ask

  • How much control does this person have over this habit?
  • What caused this habit?
  • Does this person regret they have this habit?
  • How does a person continue this habit?
  • What does this habit reveal about the ways this person prefers to behave?

Look For

  • Repetitive behavior
  • Complaints that a person wishes they could stop a habit
  • Habits that suggest traditions

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